Originally Posted By: glj
DBing did not save my marriage....it saved me.


That sums it up right there ^^^^^

Great story thanks for sharing.

I like most about it that you went through the process of detaching from the dysfunction so you could see HIS and YOUR contribution to it.

From there you were able to see what was good for YOU, your child and then ultimately your M.

And live YOUR life.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am