Oh Opt,

{{{{Optimist}}}}

Where is the half full glass?

Are you really sure? I know I have felt that way many times, but usually after sleeping and thinking I do not feel that way later.

You have been under so much stress and so many things going on.

I am not trying to say you are wrong. Only you know how much you can take and put into trying to make this marriage work.

I just do think it has appeared that your H is trying, stumbling, confused, conflict avoidance, and Martian, but trying.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Optimist}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Please think long and hard. I was told never make these important decisions when emotional. JJ said always wait 24 hours. He is good.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"