Ato I hope you make it! We are day by day. Trying to rebuild the trust. Had an argument over TKD last night. She wants to complete next level of black belt. She will resent me if I tell her no TKD. I am going to give her a chance at NC and see if she maintains boundry. If not deal breaker.
See why you are just a couple light years away from jumping to "Piecing?" You will get a lot of back-and-forth, and that is even after she APPEARS to be serious about reconciling.