Hmmmm the guy I had an affair with went into a deep depression when I would not leave my husband for him. He lost his job etc etc. He came right and now has a good marriage. It was the beginning of the end of mine.
My affair guy and his wife were good friends and we all hung out in a big group. When the waters calmed after it all. i remained with the group whowere amazing support for me. It is one of the groups birthday and they would want me at the party. My x and his new girlfriend and affair and his wife were invited out of respect but not expected to attend. My x and gf are not but others are.
I could of beenattending a party with my X . affair guy and new boyfriend. F*&^. and just to put this all in perspective we arte all middle to upper class people. so social standings do not enter into the arena of sleeze and lies and ugliness.
