Not sure, but I know I rarely email first, I let the guys email me most of the time....maybe it is passive aggressive, or old fashioned, but I like guys to ask me out!
I have 'favorited' a few guys, so they can see I am interested, and then sometimes that guy emails me. I am trading emails right now with a guy on match. Not sure how many emails should be traded before one of us asks the other one out already...
I am not big on "rules"...if someone asked me out on a Thursday for Friday, and I was free and wanted to go, I would go. However if it became a pattern then I would say something. Or if I genuinely had plans I might say, "Can't make it, I have plans, is there another day that works for you?" If he can come up with one, good, if not, I know I am Plan B...
