Yikes! Maybe both of them should start Dbing before it's too late.
As for you.....you go girl!
Yeah I know, it is hard knowing what I know and all I have learned (reading WAYYY too many relationship books the past 3 years!) to just watch them go through the motions in their marriages.
Glad that didn't come off as slutty or something, Kimmmie. I just can't identify with having a low drive. Quality time and physical touch are high on my list. It doesn't have to be sex, I like holding hands, walking arm in arm, things like that, too.
That's one thing I noticed right away with GG. When we met up at the party last April, he would go get a drink and bring me one too, and when he walked up as I was talking to other people he would come stand beside me and rub my arm, or touch the small of my back. Hard to explain, little simple touches, but made it feel like there was a connection. I like that.