I would like to add that both of my husbands were opposite body types as well.
First ex (married to him for 15 yrs) was maybe 5'7" on a good day, blond, blue eyes, cute.
Second ex (married to him for 12 yrs) was tall, dark, slender, and very handsome....and 13 years younger than me. And believe me, the sex was mind-blowing!
But, I digress.....
As far as me having sex again, and I will sooner, rather than later, I just figure that a man can take me as I am, or not at all. There would not be a next time if he was an insensitive jerk.