update:

4pm comes and goes, i wait 15 minutes. i left work, called from pay phone(i don't have a phone)tell him to take kids to my house

i forgot my breast pump so i had to turn around, another 20 minutes passes, i call him when i get back at work and picked up breast pump.

he is screaming and yelling at me, i say if you continue with the yelling name calling i will hang up, he continues i hang up.
he reaches my work another 15 minutes later. ask him why he didn't show, he says he did, he did not, as he is putting kids in car, he is saying tuesday i have to deliever kids to his house he can't get d3 to school, he drives off

i go to payphone, i say if he's working then arrangements can be made, if it is for anything else, then he is refusing to care for the children.

he says he's flying to texas, for work, no, he's going on vacation. then he says he has to go to court, so i say ok provide the documents taht you have to go to court, keep in mind he lies about everything.
so he then says anytime there is a problem i have to sign something and that is what his attorney says i have to do. i state, i do not have to sign anything.

he is saying oh i have no time to talk about this, he is being smug and an ass$$%. end of convo.

should i respond via facebook(that is how we communicate) something that i am glad you have an attorney, now we can get things settled and legal, please provide me his/her name so i can give it to mine. i don't have one, yet...

more then likely he will say just give me yours....


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline