Quote: It must be just so puzzling to the WAW (or whatever the heck your H is now!!) to be treated with consistent love, respect, caring when they are doing things that even THEY know are hurtful and NOT what we wish for.
Puzzling or not, Sunday came and went and H did not bring up the subject... He actually made plans 'as if' he is going to stay home. At this point I do not know what to think... He will do whatever he wants to do, I guess.
I suspect he may have discovered he does not want to leave after all. Today he kept asking what was up with me (I was not wearing my glasses and I squint or something, because he always asks that when I am not wearing them). At the time nothing was up with me but later something did happen...
He hugged me very nicely and I finally told him that I was thinking how much I'd like it if he wore his ring. He snorted and went off in a huff to watch 'Caillou' with our D. I let it be, served supper and was nice to him when he went to work for 2 hours.
We watched TV for a while. He laughed at me, joking because we saw a mouse and I hate mice. And we went to bed. Then I told him that I thought he had misinterpreted my comment about the ring, that he probably thought it was some kind of control issue. I explained that, to me, wearing the ring means having something of him with me always, even when he is not physically there. That what my comment about the ring really meant was that I would like for him to want to have something of me always with him. He then hugged me in silence and went to sleep.
Sleep however is eluding me, so I came to the BB, hoping that mice will not come out when there is light. H better call the pest control service tomorrow, because they sprayed the whole house just 3 weeks ago...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
