Lost like a ship in the very dark night

[babh]

Thanks Lance, I have read the homework several times already. It's just something else to get through I think. I have read it a couple of times too, or will think about something and go back and re-read something. I have spent a lot of time on here reading, that's my new life! I know that this is not easy, and it's not about me, and I am so thankful for that! I'd rather be going through it on this end, it seems scary on the other side. And to think this may never end for him, he's very stubborn, and rebellious, so I think he is in it for the long haul.

What I think is so funny about my STBXH, is he has been telling me for years how he hates controlling women, and you got it, OW tells him pretty much what to do about everything, or how to handle it. Even Son said, gee whiz Mom, he doesn't like women like that! It gives me a chuckle, and is a good thought when I am low.

All the posts are so helpful, and I think everyone should know that. It's good to know, unfortunately, that there are others out there in the same place. Comfort in numbers! Thanks again.