Well I applaud the effort. Though I don't have nearly as much contact with mine right now as you seem to, I know exactly how you feel. For the last 3 years it has been exactly the same for me, I get sucked in by a message or conversation, I reply, try to continue a conversation etc, then boom she shuts it off and never responds. I will say that since I was served a few weeks ago, I have had zero contact. And feel like just saying leave me alone. But I know I need to be friendly for the kids sake, and am working towards that. We switch the kids every Friday, and I hope one of these Fridays I'll be able to smile, ask how she is, and "chat"? But as I've read above, it the expectations that are the killer, and I'm trying to get those out of my life. "each day is a different one" thats for sure.
Thanks WP, appreciate the support. Fellow Canadian too! Always a good thing!
Me 40 W. 38 S. 17 S. 14 S. 12 Married 15yrs "together" 19 Bomb Dropped Aug 8/07 I moved out Sept 09 OM confirmed July 10 She filed D Oct 18/10