decide NOTHING. Gather data. Listen to him and listen well. Tell him you need time to process this "news" whatever it is. And decide nothing tonight.

So all you are getting tonight is information from him. Remember that. Nothing will be written (at all) let alone in stone. Just listen to him and at some point, you can ask what he wants or expects FROM YOU, just to be clear.
Good luck! STAY CALM NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS..."losing it" is not attractive. Besides, you will never regret facing this with dignity.

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change