It must be just so puzzling to the WAW (or whatever the heck your H is now!!) to be treated with consistent love, respect, caring when they are doing things that even THEY know are hurtful and NOT what we wish for.
I wonder if his "Mood" is related to this? I mean shouldn't you be raving and screaming and kicking him out and giving him some REASON to need more "space"?
No, here you are making the home he's choosing (has he really?) to leave for a while as inviting as it can possibly be.
