so i keep batting around me filing. it's not what i want and it is like he is waiting for me to file. it's like how long can he go without filing. we just seem to have power struggles.

i don't think he brought food to make it right, but you know i really have no clue.

since last thursday his comment was what do we have to talk about, i just ignore him, i don't speak to him, he asks questions about the dog, kids and i just ignore him. trying a new strategy.

I have explored the legal aspect, h knows that he really has no leg to stand on in court.

ok so boundaries: if you continue to provide your work schedule late i will?????

if you continue to neglect your financial responsibilities ina timely mannaer, i will???

if you continue in your illegal lifestyle i will.....

if we continue to be married legally without you acting like a husband i will.....


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline