I think it helps in seeing other people struggle with this too. I know I am not alone and that is the most comforting. It stops the 'what is wrong with me' internal voice.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."