Moving Forward

[Lost Rabbit]

Hiya hun came on here to see what the other guys suggested, good to get an overall opinion.

You know Ive been through this and still do on some days, but honestly whilst I get what the other guys are saying about "be the best man" you have been doing that all along and what ever made W start thinking about OM there is nothing you can do about that, and if you start going round and round in circles worrying about this you are only going to "look your worst"

Lack of sleep is one of your worst enemies, it always is, you get tired then you get grumpy and then things get blown outta proportion and you get resentful, I know this because I do the same, get yourself to bed early or on time tonight and take a sleeping pill.

Tomorrow reclaim your life back again, drop the rope let W stew that if she doesnt get herself together you wont be there when she gets back from working away. State your boundaries, especially the one about not contacting OM, firmly remind her that contacting him even in the realms of laying things to rest is still contacting him and you wont accept it and it will be the end of things no second chances.

However you look at things, the date night may have come over as a bit desperate even pursuey, you do need to organise things well ahead, so that W ponders on a nice evening out, and the possibility of romance, pleasant conversation and more romance. Believe me none of those things come into your mind when your panicking about where to stick the kids, infact quite the opposite it only points out that you the incompetant parent must be mad to expect love, romance and potential love making etc when you are causing them to panic about their beloved little wonder cherubs!

Go back to detaching you know if she is gonna contact OM you cant do anything about it, dont let your paranoia get the better of you, you know thinking is bad for you lol!

PUT YOURSELF FIRST!

Remember things she hates about you, in a good way, so exit wimpo man, indecisive man and become Im busy getting a life you have to make your own decision W but believe me I have made mine and you are on dodgy ground..

You can do this, stop getting your trunks in a twist and have a bit more faith in yourself (()