In my case my H was the cheater and I still offered him 50/50 custody bc I know that my kids NEED their dad, not just their mom. He declined it bc he travels so much. However, our custody agreement is that one week he has them 5 days, I have two, and the next week I have them six days, he has one. Still that means he has them 6/14 days which is almost 50%. Then when he travels for work I keep them on his days, but when he gets back I often let him have them for an afternoon/evening during my time. I am just flexible that way...
