We actually reconciled on Thanksgiving 2002, after his 6 week affair that started shortly after our son was born... So thanksgiving time is good and bad.
Moving on! I replied to GG "Sure it would be fun to do dinner with them, then you and I could grab a drink after"
No more sitting back trying to be a 'pleaser'. Just going to be up front and that way no second guessing. Guys will either like me, or not! But I am done mind reading to try and pick the 'right' answer...