D1adsl5a, the monthly payment is state to state. If I'd gotten 50 percent physical custody in Ill. then I wouldn't owe her child support. So there was no way she was going to agree to that and I screwed up by letting her have more than 50 percent custody when I moved out.

If I could wave a magic wand I'd have said I'm not leaving unless you agree that we are going to do 50/50 custody.

Instead, I went the nice guy route and it's going to cost me for the next 10 years.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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