Hmmmm.....I don't think the profile is the problem, honestly. I think the fact that I didn't lie about my age, and therefore don't appear in the searches of many guys (who usually are looking for under 50 if they are my age or younger) is a problem. In fact, many of the "40-something" guys I find are actually in their fifties, but lied about their age in order to show up in younger searches themselves.