Be very clear that you will walk away if you don't start working on things. And you see that FMV said she had to say it 3 times. It might have taken a few times to get to me, but I would have got it with that clear message. I so wish my W had been upfront and in my face about it instead of going down the path of an EA.
You can do this!
Congrats on 20 hours. You will hit 24. And when you hit 24, your immediate goal is changed to 48 hours. It will get easier


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11