I am just so mad and wonder how he can repeatedly lie to me and do these things. And to make it worse he tells me I am being paranoid and insecure and reading too much out of nothing. Could I be???
Oh please. Any ONE of those six things you list above, and he's guilty as hell.
Paranoia is defined as an unreasonable or "irrational fear." There is nothing at all irrational about your instincts (nor your evidence), W.I.O.N.
