What's da haps, man?

[soleil]

I sometimes wish we had those mind-eraser things from Men In Black to erase some of the details...

Amen to that! What I wouldn't give for one of those!

IR, I am not going to get ADs. I am in a MUCH better place now that I was even a month ago. I spent almost a year feeling so frickin low and in hindsight, I should have gotten on ADs but dont feel I need it at this point. Though I get sad, I don't wake up each day with that pounding migraine and wanting to die.

That's why I always tell everyone to know as little about them as possible

Oh I wish I would have used this... I, unfortunately, ASKED. He took it further though than what I needed to know. I even found was told about her political preferences and how she "acted like she had never had sex before" (you know, cause she wanted to f-ck so much). Lovely, yes? And that's another thing. I've always prided myself on not being a woman who would go home with a man she met just hours before and giving him a damn bl-w job and f-cking him several times but I guess that is what my STBX is really into, though he always talked smack about those kinds of women before... Seriuosly, why the h did he tell me everything? It's like pouring acid on someone's heart.

I didn't think the physical part affected women as much as it affects men but clearly you and another friend has mentioned the same thing so clearly it's difficult for women too.

Oh, we care just as men as the men do!

Frequently, this is when the relationship enters a period of painful, tempestuous crisis, with one or both partners feeling they have fallen out of love, and therefore, should move on. This misinterpretation is the ruin of many marriages."[/i]

Excellent article. I esp. liked the last part. It's so true.