MLC or just an EA?

[angel61]

I have a question: How can I detach if we are living together? I did tell him that if not for D11, I would gladly agree to an S. He has not pushed the issue, I think he sort of used it to get what he wanted from me, but when I said I am actually willing to do it, he hasn't mentioned it since then.

My therapist said that I should listen to what he doesn't say. If he wanted to leave, no amount of persuasion would stop him. The fact that he has not left means something.







OW has given him a yellow light -