One thing that I thought was kind of funny about last night, we were standing around talking at the reception and I asked ex if he could get me some tea. He was right by the table and I had several people to wade through. He didn't hesitate, just did it. Kind of like nothing has really changed. It is good that we can talk about the kids, even though he is still delusional.
My parents came last night and while they didn't talk to ex, they didn't allow his being there to keep them away. So some small positives there.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
It is funny sometimes, isn't it. When you're together in social setting you just fall into the old natural patterns. Nothing wrong with that! Getting along with the ex is a good thing. Hey, congrats on your son, that's amazing. I'm sure having a great mom had something to do with his success!
Glad you're feeling better kat and congrats on your son's accomplishment- definitely a proud moment for a parent!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Yes, My ex married his affair partner a month ago.
I wish I could say that I knew kids inherited intelligence but I know that isn't the case. I will say that I have worked with them all and have encouraged them to reach for their full potential. Reach for the stars...it is the only way to go!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hey Kat, I thought you were gonna lick my cone? Well, it's too late now, I had to put it away. No ice cream this close to bed time! Maybe tomorrow night.
Kat, when you said you asked him for a tea it threw me there for a sec. Of course, I remember the whole thing about his wedding...doh!
Wii you need to be match.com- I think it's time, I'm just sayin'.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Wii you need to be match.com- I think it's time, I'm just sayin'.
You mean what I wrote was disgusting enough that I could post on Match.com! I'm truly honoured. I even left out the part about my savoury nuts, should I have used that too? Teach me, I need to know these things. I wanna be the best pervert I can be! Kat is counting on me. Hope your computer heals itself soon Kat.
That's right...no second rate perverts allowed. Only first class all the way!! lol The Geek Squad has my computer. Hope they can make it feel all better. Thank goodness for my iPod. I can still check stuff and get on here.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory