So my wife has reached out to me after two weeks of being dark, but it is to determine when would be a good time to come get the rest of her stuff. Not the action I would have hoped after about two months of stopping the chase, not pleading, and not snooping, and GALing on my part. She was cordial about it but her business-like approach puts me off.

Vets, how should I respond? I don't want to be divorced but I do have to drop the rope some time. I am thinking I am going to go with a "I don't want you to move completely out, but if you feel that's what you need to do, then I would prefer it be X out of the days you mentioned."

Being in limbo sucks.