What's da haps, man?

[ClingingToHope]

I know I'm going to fall hard again some day for someone. I'm not sure when. I hope that I'm practical then on figuring out if it will work long-term.

I mean, there were red flags popping up everywhere with STBXW, but I really thought we were perfect for each other ... and it didn't work out.

I guess my answer on love is that I expect to be passionate, but when it comes to ever getting married again, I hope to be more practical.

I have thoughts like you had in the car when I'm driving as well. And I don't have any concrete proof that STBXW cheated or that this guy who keeps popping up is any more than a friend.

It's tough. Sometimes I think something has to go on because STBXW was with so many guys before me. Other times I remember what a cold fish she is and think she'll probably die alone.

Anyway, back to you, those thoughts don't happen as often or hurt as much -- but they'll always hurt a little, I think.

What is it about driving in the car? I had several occasions last year where I got so lost in thought I lost track of what I was doing. I'm extremely lucky I didn't have an accident last year.