It's also about personal preferences. If you make up the excuse that he is "too busy", "shy", "not sure" etc. -- think about whether that's the kind of guy you want to be with, even for a fling? I love that my guy is confident enough to "go for it" and motivated enough to make his desire to see me very clear even when his schedule doesn't make it easy -- and he was like this after our very first date.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
