Here's a concept: Listen to your intuition, your inner voice. Your gut rarely steers you wrong.
Also.. what does it indicate when a question needs so much input? Here's a little thing I follow.
If it's right, the answer is yes. If it's wrong, the answer is no. If I can't decide or waffle, the answer is no.
If you want my input, it's G. If you fret this much after a single smooch, imagine how anxiety producing anything else would be. After all, it should be from YOUR perspective, what you're looking for rather than him (describing and/or making excuses for his behavior).
You said it better than I did Gypsy
When embarking on new relationships, our guts are better guides than our heads or other people's opinions.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
