There are still lots of red flags with the sexy young blonde blue eyed tattooed secretary.
Just last weekend they spent two nights together camping. He said he invited the whole office, but no one else turned up. Do i look like an idiot here?
He swears there is nothing between them, and I have never caught this man in a lie in 12 years...
Pie,
This puts up TONS of red flags in my head. Remember, the H you know is not currently around. There is a madman in your H body. Therefore, because it's not something your old H would do does NOT mean it can't be happening now. I wouldn't recommend snooping or anything like that, but you might want to mentally prepare yourself for that possibility because it is very real. Most MLCers get an OP at some point. What you do at that point is your choice, but I would be very on guard if I were you. Hate to sound so negative, but when it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck.....
I know this is not easy. Eric is right. Concentrate on YOU. He is still very lost. Work on the one thing you CAN improve and that is you.
((Pie))
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11