That was very well put. I have been reading this forum just about everyday for several months. What it seems to me is there are many different opinions and not everyone is going to agree. I have read the book SSM and found it very interesting. Have even tried a few things in the book. Get my LD husband to read it? I hardly think so considering he feels therapists are a bunch of bunk. I myself have not been touched by my spouse in over 3 yrs. We have separate bedrooms and I have been sleeping alone for the better part of 10 yrs. He was LD back when we got married 21 yrs ago but I was too stupid/nieve to recognise it. Back then it didn't bother me. just MHO if 2 people can't come to a compromise then its never going to work. I will continue to read, it helps me to understand that there are other women out there that are HD. At least I don't feel so alone like I used to. Have a good day.
