One of the problems with the advice you will get on this site, is that moving out is a mistake. How WRONG they are about that advice. Sometimes it is EXACTLY what is needed and WORKS. I rarely see a relationship get back on track when the guy stays with a Wayward. Can you show me all the success stories of spouses on here who didn't separate that are reconciled and happy. There are very few. Very few.
I have been here all along to guide you in the correct direction. The correct direction is to leave or have her leave. It is the only true way to get their respect. She has been playing you all along.
Have to agree with the great Gucc on this point...while my sitch isn't ideal, moving out woke up my W
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10