Yes, I did tell you so. I realize that you don't think I know what I am talking about, but you are wrong. I have been doing this for a long long long time and have found that some people just have to find out their own way.
Your answer all along has been to move out, get your own place, leave her alone and start dating others immediately. She told you that she wants you out a long time ago and I did tell you that just because you weren't talking about it didn't mean she changed her mind. One of the problems with the advice you will get on this site, is that moving out is a mistake. How WRONG they are about that advice. Sometimes it is EXACTLY what is needed and WORKS. I rarely see a relationship get back on track when the guy stays with a Wayward. Can you show me all the success stories of spouses on here who didn't separate that are reconciled and happy. There are very few. Very few.
I have been here all along to guide you in the correct direction. The correct direction is to leave or have her leave. It is the only true way to get their respect. She has been playing you all along.