I have just read a few of your latest posts so I probably don know the full situation sounds like XH is doing a little soul searching and that is good you have moved so far beyond him and it is nice and kind of you to help him recover I sense your X has a LOT of searching and cleaning up to do and u have a new guy who you seem to like why not put more energy there for now to see if there is possibilities your X may be recovering for quite some time not just from the surgery but from the crises peace
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