Thanks IB, I have read a lot of your posts! You are an awesome woman, and are dealing with all of it well. I have good days too, and man do I look forward to those! I'm going through some anger right now, and a friend who has been through divorce says it's a good thing, it will help me out with detaching and letting go. My poor dog is scared though, she gets to hear all the yelling blush I have it under control, so I am just waiting this part out too. The good thing is, I know that I am going to make it, and it's getting better. I have never been a
a go go go person, but do get out with my friends.

STBX sent me an email, seems I forgot to change an account and it's coming out of our old joint account. He seemed decent about it all, just made me more angry. I am working on a reply, he is still dragging his feet about getting the house insurance changed, seems funny that he is worried about a charge to his account, when I'm paying his bills! They are a different creature.


I'm glad that it's not about me, I wouldn't want to be that messed up. But then, in thinking back, it's been about him for some time. He's got a lot to deal with. I think my head would explode if I was where he is at.

Thanks again IB for the encouragement! I hope that you have a great day smile


Me; 52
H; 54
M 25
S 22
Bomb drop 6/14/2010
S 7/9/10
H filed 9/7