I feel so bad for you and the waiting is just tearing you and your kids apart.
Also, I am so glad you ignore the advice to not look at facebook. Oh, yeah riiight....ignore evidence that could help you in this battle.
I will never understand the so-called "no snooping" uh...."rule." WTF?? Yeah, it hurts, but so does everything else when you're dealing with a degenerate WAS.
I bet there are millions of LBS who would have fared a lot better if they had "snooped" more instead of being caught flat-footed without valuable evidence.