Have just found out that my H has been talkin to the OW. Even though he had said he had broken it off and had stopped communicating with her. What I feel like doing right now is to throw all his staff away. I am so mad!
The other thing he went away for the weekend...remember that space thing he was talkin about. He didnt give me specifs abt where he was going. He was supposed to return home on Monday but later said the car had broken down. Anyway ended up not coming home on Monday but Tuesdeday (yesterday).
Things that are not making sense;
1. The OW also left her home on Thursday and returned on Tuesday but had supposedly gone to another country not were we stay. Wonder if she lied that she was going there when she was coming this side. 2. When he came back he had no trace of where he was...not even a single receipt. I checked everywhere. I think he is scared I will find out he was not by himself. Since ehn has he been this meticulous 3. The receipts I found were for another hotel in a surburb where there is the international airport. The name of the person written there was a shortcut of his name and he had apparently checked in on Monday when the allegedly car broke down. He says' he does not know whose receipt that is...maybe one of the 'guys' who was in the car dropped it.' 4. There were 2 wine glasses in the car...one under the seat one in the boot. He says he was having drinks with some guys. 5. The woman smses me and tells me things that have happened recently in our home...obviously she can't guess but someone should have told her. Like how my baby recently had nappy rush. And yet H told me he had cut all contact. 6. He bought a Man Utd scarf on his outing...he does not support Man U but Chelsea. Why did he buy it and for who...coz it's nowhere in his things.
I am just so mad and wonder how he can repeatedly lie to me and do these things. And to make it worse he tells me I am being paranoid and insecure and reading too much out of nothing. Could I be??? Don't know what to do (but I really feel like throwing his stuff out). I feel like he is just gonna keep on doing what he is doing and lie to my face all about it. He knows I will rant and rave but won't do anything. And this is really killing me.