Interesting Mila, the sleeping pills must be part of the MLC journey. My h took them too. Said he had trouble sleeping and then used them to sleep the day away too.

I wouldn't read too much into him not showing you his place. Just another part of the MLC journey.

I wouldn't read too much into wanting to do everything for this ow. The confusion and fog takes over so much of their thinking.

Sounds like you are doing good though!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"