I agree, b/c some women keep going back over past mistakes H has made and won't go forward. Once it has been discussed and apologized for....drop it and refuse to go back over it again and if she tries to bring it up....tell her that you won't get off into the past again. If she thinks that is cold hearted, so be it. It is not healthy and sometimes men just have to take a firm stand about that.
I think it is a mistake to apologize for the same thing over & over again. If you apologize 100 times for something you did or didn't do, does that mean you weren't sincere the other 99 times? I don't think men need to apologize until the woman feels better, either, b/c some won't ever feel better and will use it to hold over his head all the way into eternity.
Busto, There is an "Enchanter" right there. She is a Woman speaking to a Man.
You validate til the cows come home Bro. You listen and be a Rock. The only time you EVER turn a cheek to the conversation is if she's disrespecting you. Period.
Gucci doesn't disagree and Dudess is backing that up.
Seriously, your actions, listening, and validating her is working. She's a mess and scared. Nothing you can "fix", but the "Rock" can handle it. Don't STOP what's working.
Not apologizing over and over doesn't mean don't listen and agree. Just don't allow your hard work and change to be..."abused".
