Originally Posted By: Jstar
my goal is to share my life with the father of my 2 children, to have mutal respect and value one another, to begin.


How are you with respecting yourself? I only ask this because, if you are not respecting yourself, he will see it and will in return not give you respect. It sounds to me like he is just simply skating through. Do you have any boundaries put in place for him? Are there any consequences for his bad behavior?


Edited for your protection.