gr8, I just peeked in to see what was happening and want to compliment you for going with your gut when you sent flowers and a kind note...

It is an example where MWD says we need to experiment and do what works. Sometimes the steadfast rules of "do not pursue" or "do not initiate relationship talk" don't apply! The hard part seems to be trusting when we take the risk of doing those things.

Anyway, good luck and I am happy for you!

(P.S. just cuz I am not a success story doesn't mean I didn't learn a thing or two on this DB forum!)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004