It's not over till it's over right?

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lost,
my heart goes out to you.
j-star is right. watching them move out is dreadfully painful. it was so painful for me - I had just given birth and had boxed his stuff nonetheless and then started to throw the boxes at him when he came to pick them up. so ya know, not good... :-(
It will be SO much easier to do NC when he is gone.
You will be able to pick up your self respect.
You will realise the problem is HIM, not YOU.
You will realise he cannot give you a "good" reason for breaking apart his family.
You need to stop caring about the relationship. He's putting a higher value on OW than you and your son right now. You need to take him of the pedestal.
Can you do these things?
What are your plans tomorrow?
Go for a long, long walk and don't be tempted to watch him move out or interract with him.
This WILL get better....
HUGS.