ahhhh! What about being a surfer? Are surfers more relaxed about life? Maybe he just isn't in much of a hurry for anything and is going with the flow. Flirt back when you email and test those waters!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
