Pollyanna, I don't think it would be a good idea to go to that 50th b-day party out of respect to the spouse of the guy you had an affair with...

As for going on all of those dates, it's not normal, it is FABULOUS!! (normal implies that it is common for to have so many dates...[lucky you!] at least that is my thinking!)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004