Thanks sgctxok. We are actually both having trouble being even interested. I'm the one who wants us to get interested again and I was given several promises that never materialized. This is a well, well worn path of my husband's and nothing happens without me having a "meltdown". It's very painful and I feel like a shrew. So I give up until one day I realize I don't want to live like this and there's the meltdown. So we are both playing the avoidance game at the moment. It hurts.
me: 57 H: 54 M: 18 y Affair over on Dday: 6/99 Never split-up but it was a hard road D: 38 GD:18 I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!
