online dating tips #3

[Lotus]

I vote for P as in player and Peter Pan. He's playing with lots of women and they are all the same to him. He is strictly fun and games with everyone. Think Charlie in Two and a Half Men.

[desert_rat]

Careful on ECG. The scammers are more than willing to work long term. Not saying that's what it is at all, but.....

Yeah... 27 is a bit more than a bit young. Weird open relationship should certainly be avoided!

It may be that 34 year old isn't a booty call kind of guy, but then again, what would he say?

I am sticking to B; though OT could be right, I'm not feeling that.

We are having band "practice" Sunday afternoon. Two of my kids should be here, almost a gig!

[desert_rat]

I'm not voting playa. A playa wouldn't give you that much time to slip away, he'd be making a move.

[v1olin]

I think he is atleast talking to other people if not playing with them too. Does this guy have any kids? Maybe he has a past life as a cheater if he is divorced?

[v1olin]

Maybe he is a spy???

[v1olin]

[kml]

So we have three votes for B, one for C (from the woman with a younger guy, I might add, lol) and two votes for PLAYER. (And one votes specifically against PLAYER).

I'm inclined to agree with Desert Rat here - I think if he was a player, he would have moved in a little earlier to scoop up his winnings.

I'm inclined to think B too - he probably has other younger women on the website willing to date him, maybe he's even involved with someone but not sure how it will work out - or not sure if he wouldn't rather have a fling with me.

[kml]

I must say, I wouldn't blame him for having reservations.

[desert_rat]

But I wouldn't blaming him for thinking a fling with you would be fun!

[kml]

True.