Wife's EA/PA how to handle changing situation

[blue2010]

I actually do not want to punish her later. i do want to know she is telling the truth. The OM spouse told me about the text anyway. The reported intent was to make contact to make final closure that he intends to stay with his wife. Spoke with her tonight after she said goodnight to the kids. She sounded angry again we had not spoken since bedtime yesterday. No R talk next to no talk essentially Hi and By.