I've been out of touch for a while so I'm catching up with your thread.
I'm glad to hear this site is helpful and that you find it supportive. It's so hard - sometimes - not to over-pursue, the deadliest of all DB sins! And having the extra support can make a difference when you are trying to avoid that.
And as one of your other contributors noted, you get to hear different points of view. I hope mine is helpful.