I don't want you to feel alone, I am really sorry that youa re in this spot in your life. you can not reconcile if there is an OP.
easier said then done, but do not be around when he does move out, it may cause you more pain to watch it happen. go to the movies, drive out of town do something.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline