Some good advice I've read is to NOT get involved in mindreading, etc.
Once a guy has met you he is either:
1. really interested and shows it by contacting you, planning a date, etc.
or
2. not interested enough...who knows why, who cares why.
I dated two men who are super busy with children, heavy workloads, etc. Both made a point of scheduling dates with me, even 10 days in advance if that was the best we could do with our schedules. A guy pursuing an attractive woman for relationship purposes has to realize that she is likely to become unavailable soon if he doesn't make his move.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
